is that a crime..?

arrived back home pretty late today...from tuition...
a lot of friends quit alrdy cause exam is coming near and also is the last term.. haiz.. gonna miss them..

chat with a friend there..haiz..
no offense to the 'friend of mine'... but he said that:
if yr sticking with girls and like be very friend with them... there will be people behind saying

u bad things or backstabbing... cause jealousy take place there.... haiz...

is that a crime to be nearing with girls... HUH..

i think we are going through the same problem...
being a friend is hard enough but being a *** is more hard...

what is so jealous about that...??